Monday, December 5, 2011

open up yourself please

哥哥自小都是慢熱的人，不喜歡與陌生人（就算是小朋友也好）交談，以為大了一點會改善，誰知越大越變本加厲，就連揮手說再見也不肯，學校的老師也說有時候問他一些問題，就連簡單的yes or no他也不願說，要費上半天時間再他才肯點頭或搖頭。當我們懷疑他是否不懂表達自己，但老師又說，到遊戲時間看見他與一大班男孩玩到嘻嘻哈哈，說不停嘴！

昨天帶他去聽故事，其他小孩子一坐下不用多久已經混熟，但哥哥只會靜坐一角，看著其他小朋友玩耍，到聽完故事，姐姐邀請所有小朋友一同合照，他被三催四請，差不多被人拉上台也不肯合照，到回家時他又會推說我不喜歡影相嘛，總之就是有千百個藉口！

有時真攪不清他小小的腦袋在想甚麼！

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Rachel said...

May be Rafael is an introvert like me.

Being an introvert to the extreme (which I didn't know until my cpy put me to an aptitude test 15 years ago), I always felt myself a round peg in a square hole coz introverts are minorities in society and always being misunderstood by extroverts.

I recently read this:
http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2003/03/caring-for-your-introvert/2696/#

and I couldn't agree more.

Haven't meet Rafael for long. And Heather is really cute and cheeky. Wish you all well.

05 December, 2011 22:30

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