Thursday, November 26, 2009

thanksgiving

學校派通告說,感恩節當日,請孩子都帶一些食物回學校,學校會代為送給老人院,給老人家點點溫暖。

兩天前就開始請靖愷在家裡的乾糧中挑點甚麼。

"我唔想呀!"

不要緊,我們送了食物給老人家,自己可以再買啊!

"但係我唔想喎!"

這個孩子,平常請他和家人分享食物都很樂意。再問為甚麼,是因為你不認識他們嗎?

他點點頭:"我都唔識佢地。"

唔,那我們遲些去探探老人家認識他們,好不好?

又點點頭。

感恩節到了,可是昨夜小人兒氣管發炎,發燒了,也咳得厲害。

在感恩節這天,我仍是感恩,幸好在孩子病倒的時候,有爸爸在我們身旁。

rafael is having a fever starting last night. and on thanksgiving day, i'm really grateful that daddy is around at a time we most needed him.

6 comments:

woodstockbb said...

Amy, you are a super good mom. I am so glad that you found a way to encourage Rafael to share.

Yoshi said...

Rafael, stay strong, u will recover very soon and be able to pick out your favorite snacks in store. get some rest mom and dad.

孜媽 said...

錫錫愷愷。

amy最近我也發現自己很軟弱,見了長輩叫她叫人她死都不叫,人家說拖拖手嘛,她截然say no。在船上稍不如意就尖叫。

我有時想究竟是來硬的,凶她嚇她(又擔心她學我的態度),還是哄她(通常無用),還是她天生就如此。

感恩節,也感恩認識你,像很久遠的事了。

amy said...

woodstockbb: actually i asked him again this morning and he still refused to give... hmm... i guess it takes time for him to understand?

yoshi: thanks for your blessings! rafael's temperature has gone down already but is still coughing. luckily weekend is coming and we can all take some rest!

孜媽:靖愷也是慢熱的(我想是天生的"觀察型"吧),我們都是多鼓勵他和以身作則而已,畢竟迫也沒用。慢慢來,我們近日已看到有改善。

也感謝你們每一個留言,給我們的鼓勵和力量!

woodstockbb said...

be patient... keep asking... be creative when encourging!!! Remember he has your genes... haha

Sarah Yuen said...

SARAH 也是剛感冒完呢!保重!
小朋友病了,父母總是最心力交瘁的人!